Ok. I think we all know someone like this. The friend who's so wrapped up in thoughts of a man they want that that's all they talk about or think about. I have my own nightmare.. I mean friend... like this.
Having a crush is fine. Being in love is fine. But be IN the relationship or just fantasize. He's insanely in love with someone he dated for a month about a year ago and has been talking to maybe a couple times a week. Absurd? I think so. Crazy? You bet your ass...
What's most frustrating is all he'll listen to is words of encouragement or false hopes. He's so blinded that anything resembling the truth is grounds for dismissal. I don't mind friends talking about someone, justkeep it within the bounds of reality and not some pipe dream.
Other than that, I'm working on catching up on sleep. Stress is dissipating somewhat, and I do miss having a social life instead of the hermit-like existance I've been leading. I'm hoping to make plans near the weekend with some friends, since it's been an eternity since my last "usual friday night" and I have to set aside time for the husband too. He's going nuts with his mother being ill and running him ragged so he's been on edge lately. Of course, going through withdrawal isn't helping that. He can't hide behind a joint or bottle anymore so that makes him 10 times more bitchy when he feels backed into a corner.
Isn't a good dose of reality grand? LOL